After massaging the back of your partner's body, have him turn over. Slowly oil the whole front of his body. The key to developing your touch skills is to use this video to practice. We encourage you to repeat the same stroke at least ten times, paying close attention to your partner’s body, how his breath changes, and how his muscles respond. Be sure to ask your partner for feedback. After repeating a stroke ten times, you might try your own variations on that stroke.  You can also ask your partner, “What would make this even better?”