Anointing with Oil.
In many cultures of the world dating back thousands of years, anointing with oil was a special ritual of honoring. With every stroke, let your partner know he is special among all your relations. Start by oiling the genital area and the corridor up to the heart. Then oil the whole front of the body. Rather than squirting oil directly onto your partner, put the oil on your hands and then on to his body. Since the tissues of the penis are very sensitive, too much oil is better than too little oil. Use more oil where there is more hair. Be sure to oil the perineum.
Experiment with oils. We recommend coconut oil because it is light, unscented, and it washes out of sheets, towels and clothes with hot water. Many vegetable oils stain sheets and clothes.
During the whole massage, try to keep at least one hand on the genital area at all times, continuously generating erotic energy. Make sure the man receiving has his eyes closed for the massage. And make sure that you are guiding him in his breathing.
Shiatsu is a Japanese word meaning “finger pressure.” With your thumb and first finger squeeze up and down the penis, both front and back and sides. This rhythmic stroke begins to wake up the inner tissues of the penis.
Rock Around the Clock
Once this massage stoke begins, most men are willing to receive all day and all night. We call this stroke
Rock Around the Clock.
The penis pointing toward the belly button is 12 o’clock. Alternate your hands sensuously and slowly rubbing the penis around the clock. Make sure you are massaging both the penis and the body parts below it.
Six O’clock Good News
At 5, 6, and 7 o’clock, wrap your whole hand around the penis. Take some extra time at 6 o’clock. This is a favorite position of many men, especially if they are soft or semi-hard.
Men receiving, remember that the goal of this massage is not erection or ejaculation, but full body aliveness – orgasm nourishing every level of being. Most men find a two-thirds erection to be the most beneficial state in which to receive a an erotic massage. Erections, like the tides, ebb and flow. This is the natural rhythm of erotic energy.
A major technique of this massage is to pull the skin of the magic wand toward the base, especially if your partner is uncircumcised. This provides a pleasurable variation to most strokes. Try Rock Around the Clock with the skin of the penis pulled toward the body.
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