Penis Massage

Instruction in beginning the massage, working on the deeper tissues, the foreskin and the head of the penis. Very specific instruction and explicit close ups guide us as we learn from three beautiful couples.

Ten different strokes and a variety of sensations to delight your lover and his penis. “Touch on a soft penis can be just as pleasurable, if not more so, than a hard one."

Learn strokes for the perineum and testicles, and techniques for delaying ejaculation. Move sexual sensations throughout the body with the breath and increase your chances for full body or multiple orgasms. Close the massage as it was begun, connecting the heart and the genitals. Credits.

Preview these scenes from the new school class (October 7th) and the new DVD (available in late November) from Joseph Kramer Productions. This program free the soft penis from centuries of bad press.

Joseph Kramer Ph.D. invites us to be creative as we give and receive erotic massage.

Jesse, Tho and Ursula introduce themselves. Tho and Ursula are professional erotic bodyworkers. Jesse voices his appreciation of being massaged simultaneously by both a man and a woman. He says it brings him "to a place of wholeness."

Stretch out your body and breathe deeply to prepare for an erotic massage.

Matthew and Steve move and breathe together to enter their bodies and to connect with each other.

Anointing with Oil.

In many cultures of the world dating back thousands of years, anointing with oil was a special ritual of honoring. With every stroke, let your partner know he is special among all your relations. Start by oiling the genital area and the corridor up to the heart. Then oil the whole front of the body. Rather than squirting oil directly onto your partner, put the oil on your hands and then on to his body. Since the tissues of the penis are very sensitive, too much oil is better than too little oil. Use more oil where there is more hair. Be sure to oil the perineum. Experiment with oils. We recommend coconut oil because it is light, unscented, and it washes out of sheets, towels and clothes with hot water. Many vegetable oils stain sheets and clothes. During the whole massage, try to keep at least one hand on the genital area at all times, continuously generating erotic energy. Make sure the man receiving has his eyes closed for the massage. And make sure that you are guiding him in his breathing.

Cock Shiatsu

Shiatsu is a Japanese word meaning “finger pressure.” With your thumb and first finger squeeze up and down the penis, both front and back and sides. This rhythmic stroke begins to wake up the inner tissues of the penis. Rock Around the Clock Once this massage stoke begins, most men are willing to receive all day and all night. We call this stroke

Rock Around the Clock.

The penis pointing toward the belly button is 12 o’clock. Alternate your hands sensuously and slowly rubbing the penis around the clock. Make sure you are massaging both the penis and the body parts below it.

Six O’clock Good News

At 5, 6, and 7 o’clock, wrap your whole hand around the penis. Take some extra time at 6 o’clock. This is a favorite position of many men, especially if they are soft or semi-hard. Men receiving, remember that the goal of this massage is not erection or ejaculation, but full body aliveness – orgasm nourishing every level of being. Most men find a two-thirds erection to be the most beneficial state in which to receive a an erotic massage. Erections, like the tides, ebb and flow. This is the natural rhythm of erotic energy.

A major technique of this massage is to pull the skin of the magic wand toward the base, especially if your partner is uncircumcised. This provides a pleasurable variation to most strokes. Try Rock Around the Clock with the skin of the penis pulled toward the body.

The Gates of Consciousness

Give special attention to the place just below the head on the underside of the penis. The area called the frenulum contains an intense concentration of nerve endings. This is the place of visions, the third eye in cock reflexology. Pull this skin taut with one hand and massage with thumb circles. You can also pinch this skin between your thumb and index finger and rub and tug.

Osho’s Delight

Cross-country skiing with your thumbs making alternating strokes up and down on the Gates of Consciousness, we call Osho’s Delight, in honor of a famous sex teachers. Osho said that three hours in the full body orgasmic state can heal dysfunctional sexual patterns forever. He also said that western men are all premature ejaculators – they come before they make a connection with themselves or with a partner.

Rainbow Rub

Cap the head of the penis with your whole hand, your fingers on the top side, your palm on the tip, the heel of your palm on the Gates of Consciousness. Squeeze while rubbing the heel of your palm up and down on the Gates of Consciousness. Some men see colors with this stroke.

Healing

With the penis resting on the belly, the heel of your hand closest to the feet glides up and down the underside with your fingers toward the feet. This area is the spine in cock reflexology. Pay special attention to the Gates of Consciousness area. This stroke generates a tremendous amount of erotic energy and frees up the other hand to massage other parts of the body.

The Big U

Your hand closest to his feet does the Healing Stroke, while your other hand glides from one knee up through the belly and down to the other knee. Return and repeat. Use more pressure on the tops of the thighs, and lighten up on the abdomen. Variations: Let your hand glide from the knee to the heart area to the other knee and back while you continue the Healing Stroke. Let the hand closest to the head do the Healing Stroke while the other hand massages from the inner thigh through the perineum to the other inner thigh. Repeat. Man receiving: Invite the energy in your hips to flow to every part of your body. Invite this sacred energy to weave you together into wholeness.