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Lovers' Massage and Sexual Well Being

Joseph Kramer Ph.D.

Joseph KramerThis essay explores four different approaches to using massage to benefit couples' sexual well-being. William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian use foot, face and body caressing with all clients seeking to overcome sexual dysfunction. Ray Stubbs recommends "Pleasure Mapping" to couples who wish to enhance their lovemaking. Jack Morin advocates erotic massage for long-term couples who wish to keep sex a priority. Alan and Donna Brauer suggest massage should be a language that couples speak to each other.

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Women Speak Up About the G-Spot

Jaiya and Jon Hanauer

There was a recent study in the UK that questioned whether or not the g-spot existed. The findings of the study suggested that the g-spot was a myth. The premise of the study was to ask female identical twins if they had a g-spot. If both twins didn’t say that they had one, then the study went on to form a theory that the g-spot may be a figment of our imaginations. Of course the media got hold of the study and went wild with it. Headlines began to appear stating that the g-spot didn’t exist, that it was all in our heads. We were contacted to comment on it and many of our fellow sex educators began a counter attack. And women everywhere are speaking out. "Yes, we do too have a g-spot!"

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Somatic Education is Embodied Education

Joseph Kramer Ph.D.

Somatic education is a way of learning in the body through mindfulness and self-directed practice.

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Sexual Kung Fu Practice

Loren Johnson

Sexual energy is one of the greatest powers we have access to in the human realm.  Learning to tap that creative, life giving force in a skillful way is the objective of the various tantric sexual practices.  Sexual kung fu, the Chinese medical form of tantric sex, literally means skillful practice of sex.

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Erotic Trance Dancing for Men--Refections and Guidance

Ed Ehrgott

There are so many ways to experience solo pleasure. It's also easy to develop habits. Of course, habits can be both helpful and restrictive. Pleasurable habits can certainly feel great, but may also inhibit our exploration. I invite you to take a look at the way you make love to yourself and explore additional options.

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The Ecology Taboo

Jonathan Mack

The Ecology Taboo

As a person madly avid for both sex and ecology, I can’t help but notice how, at a pleasant dinner party with thoughtful, educated, open-minded people, it is far more acceptable to mention masturbation than ecology.  Anal sex is a topic more welcome than climate change and you’re better off referencing bondage and discipline than overpopulation.  Cross-dressing will win you more friends than noting the loss of biodiversity, and your sex toys will doubtless prove more popular at the supper table than your concern over the loss of species, freshwater, or rare metals.

I’m a gay sex fiend.  No one minds.  Oh please.  No one notices.  Everyone above the age of eleven has already watched every conceivable sex act on XTube.  Every branch of perversity is now ho-hum – but mention climate change and people shift nervously in their chairs. . .

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Breath as an Erotic Practice: Some Helpful Information

Caffyn Jesse

Breathing shallowly is a life-saving autonomic nervous system response to stress. But the stresses of contemporary life can keep our bodies in a chronic state of emergency, with a chronic pattern of shallow breathing. This "stress breath" disturbs the oxygen/CO2 balance in our bodies. A vicious circle is established: anxiety leads to rapid breathing, while the body's consequent biochemical imbalance triggers alarm. The heart has to work harder to move less-oxygenated blood around the body.

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How To Touch - From Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century

Barbara Carrellas

Urban TantraSex, whether Tantric or not, involves touch. Lots of touch. Traditional sex guides usually discuss which body parts to touch, when to touch it, and how fast to touch it. This is great, as far as it goes. But in Tantra, we want to go a step further. We want to become the touch. In order to do that, we need to find the narrow realm of touch that lies between too much pressure and too little. When you touch a body, you want to touch deeply enough that the body pushes back just a little. If a muscle becomes rigid under your touch, you've gone too far. If the muscle feels flaccid, you haven't gone far enough.

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Cómo aprender el toque erótico en Internet

Dr. Joseph Kramer

En la Nueva Escuela del Toque Erótico te invitamos a experimentar cómo los humanos aprendemos el sexo. Un aprendizaje profundo se da cuando repetimos conscientemente una práctica o un toque de masaje, una y otra vez. La práctica erótica es divertida, gratificante y transformativa cuando utilizamos este modelo yoga consciente y centrado de educación. Nuestras clases están basadas en este tipo de aprendizaje.

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La Educación Somática es educación empoderada

Dr. Joseph Kramer

La educación somática es una forma de aprendizaje en el cuerpo, a través de la conciencia y la práctica auto-dirigida.

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