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The Orgasmic Yoga Journal - December 2010- January 2011

The Orgasmic Yoga Journal - December 2010- January 2011

The Orgasmic Yoga Journal - December 2010- January 2011

Changing The Way We Touch


Sensate Focus

Changing the way we touch requires learning how to reside fully in our bodies. "Sensate focus" is the name for a specific body-based touch technique that helps people to learn how to place their attention within their physical bodies. This practice was developed and named by erotic pioneers Masters and Johnson in the 1960s.

The essence of sensate focus is learning to place one's attention of giving and receiving touch. This placement of attention on touch seems so obvious to us today, but fifty years ago, sensate focus was considered astonishing and even magical. This can be practiced while giving or receiving any kind of touch.

Often, lovers begin practicing sensate focus while exchanging hand massages, foot rubs, or shoulder massage. Once they are comfortable with staying present to these kinds of touches, they may choose to use sensate focus during an erotic massage or another sexual exchange. Regular practice of this simple technique can lead to profound results and a heightened sense of pleasure. In other words, the skill of being able to focus on the sensate develops with regular practice. This can also be called "becoming mindful of touch."

Video Teachings

*Soft Cock Erotic Massage-Sensuous Lessons for the Orgasmic Man*

*Soft Cock Erotic Massage-Sensuous Lessons for the Orgasmic Man*

1:48 min.

Too few men have experienced the pleasures and orgasms of soft cock erotic massage. Ursula and Tho are skilled erotic bodyworkers who take Jesse into embodied bliss and two orgasms in a forty-minute session. Although all of Jesse's body is included in the massage, notice in this clip that Ursula focuses on "The Gates of Consciousness," that sensitive spot right below the head on the underside of the penis. Please note the intensity of this massage. Jesse and 90% of men like their soft cock erotic massage fast and furious. Learn more about the pleasures of soft cock in the New School course, Soft Cock Erotic Massage-Sensuous Lessons for the Orgasmic Man.

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*Fabulous Fellatio with Jaiya*

*Fabulous Fellatio with Jaiya*

1:30 min.

The paradox of oral sex: he relaxes; you stimulate.

Oral sex is an intimate form of erotic massage. In her three-DVD course, Oral Sex for Couples, Jaiya offers over 120 pleasurable ways to touch genitals with your mouth and with your hands. The three demonstrations in this clip play with the tongue on the two most sensitive places on the penis-the head and the The Gates of Consciousness. Note the use of the hands---especially the shiatsu strokes up and down the penis while the head gets a tongue bath. Hone your oral lovemaking skills with fabulous fellatio in the New School course, Oral Sex for Couples, Part 1- Fabulous Fellatio.

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*Cunnilingus Earthquake with Jaiya*

*Cunnilingus Earthquake with Jaiya*

1:00 min.

Flicking, Licking, Caressing, Tapping.

Oral Sex can be about intimate connection with eye-gazing and verbal feedback. Or oral sex can be an erotic meditation for both the receiver and the giver where each allows the other to go deep into the present moment. Notice the playfulness in the two demonstrations of tongues and fingertips, flicking, licking, tapping and caressing the vulva. Enroll your tongue and hands in the New School course, Oral Sex for Couples, Part 2- Connected Cunnilingus.

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*Magic Wand Touch*

*Magic Wand Touch*

1:45 min.

Good Vibrations.

The Hitachi Magic Wand is the Rolls Royce of vibrators. From years of conscious lovemaking, David knows how best to pleasure Rachel with her vibrator. Rachel discovers that she enjoys the vibrator best when cushioned by David's hand. Lubrication enhances sensation. There’s much more to learn in the New School class. Have your partner enroll in Fire in The Valley: Female Genital Massage.

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*Annie Sprinkle's Soft Cock Revolution*

*Annie Sprinkle's Soft Cock Revolution*

2:00 min.

Artist and sexologist Annie Sprinkle calls for a Soft Cock Revolution. She reminds us that most penises in the world are soft at any given time and thus ready for pleasure without expectations.

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