Video Library

Meet the four ecstatics who will share with you their erotic self-loving.

Try massaging the external sphincter with alternating thumb strokes. Remember that “slow” is usually better than “fast”. The elbow against the Rosebud is surprisingly sensuous –but be gentle with your pressure. Feel the delicious pushing on your rosebud without the possibility of penetration. This is an invitation to open totally. Then pulse gently with your thumb and fingers without any intention of entering. This massage might evolve into other forms of lovemaking or your might end your touching by holding your partner quietly.

After an hour of full body touch, Steve and Matthew take three deep breaths together, oil the front of the body, and begin waking up the penis and pelvis.

Tho asks his friend and playmate Ursula to give him a prostate massage. She begins with a luxurious warm-up, including external anal massage, spanking and gentle penetration.

Kutira speaks about full body expanded orgasm, meditation, and surrender; Joseph Kramer describes Taoist Erotic Massage and the Big Draw; Cléo Dubois and Fakir discuss orgasm in shamanic and ritual space; and Dr. Stuart Block differentiates between erection, ejaculation, orgasm, and climax.

The class above the class, erotic self regulation, erotic massage dancing, sensate focus, mapping.

Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D, sexecologist and ecosexual, suggests we tell the earth, “I love you. I can’t live without you.” Annie and her partner Beth Stephens have married the earth again and again in public weddings around the world. (hyperlink to love art lab). In this video, Annie shares with us some of her “medibation,” a combination of masturbation and meditation. When medibating, Central to Annie’s practice is allowing herself to feel all emotions and sensations within her and around her. When she cries during orgasm, she calls this a crygasm. You will find Annie medibating in these New School classes: Female Genital Massage: Fire in the Valley and Best of Vulva Massage.  Annie’s crygasm was filmed by sex educator Dorrie Lane.

Master's and Johnson's scientific description of orgasm is compared with dozens of Tantric orgasm variations. In Tantra’s more sophisticated view, sexual climaxes are built one upon the other, culminating in extended simultaneous orgasm that can last for minutes or hours. Western sexologists have only recently begun to understand this orgasmic potential as part of our human birthright. In this clip, oral sex and hand sex are demonstrated as ways to begin awakening orgasmic energy. Another couple begins lovemaking with a full body massage. In the Tantric model, shown here in a special teaching by Sexual Secrets authors Nik Douglas and Penny Slinger, we see a completely different view of human sexual possibilities.

Anal sex never needs to be painful. The discomfort many people feel during anal sex or in prostate massage comes from not taking time to stretch the sphinter muscles. Joe Miron a world-class orchestral musician, understands the importance of practice. Here he shares with us a playful practice that stretches his anal sphincter muscles. The act of relaxing one's sphincter muscles is way more pleasurable for some men than prostate massage. What do Joe's facial expressions tell us about his self sphincter touch? This erotic yoga session is from The New School course: Uranus—Self Anal Massage for Men.

Straddling her lover, Kathryn playfully massages Jeff's penis as if it were her own. Intimacy often involves creativity, humor, and intense sensation. From the Kathryn and Jeff Collection in the video library at www.eroticmassage.com. Not available on DVD. You must have a full membership to view this clip.