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It seems everyone is talking about female ejaculation. Many are doing it. Sex Educator Dorrie Lane created this first “how-to-female-ejaculate” video in 1992 on a $60 budget. In this clip, the founder of Vulva University gives us a history lesson.

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This short video will get you in the mood for this stunning anthology: The Best of Vulva Massage.

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Give your partner a full body massage before focusing on her vulva. Once you both are ready, Jaiya offers an astonishingly beautiful teaching, showing ways to begin to touch the vulva— with breathing, eye gazing, quiet pressure, patting, drumming, tapping, cupping, and vibrating. Three loving couples show how to build sexual trust with their hands and their hearts. Jaiya guides you in awakening your lover’s body and your own with this lesson from her comprehensive erotic massage course: Red Hot Touch for Lovers.

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Massaging the clitoris makes it bigger, firmer, and more erect. Annie Sprinkle’s advice is to start with a feather light touch. Extreme camera close-ups allow us to see how David’s fingers expertly vary pressure, rhythm, and direction on Rachel’s clitoral hood and surrounding tissues. Letta shows us the classic finger circle stroke on her own clitoris. She knows exactly the pressure she likes. Betsy demonstrates the doorbell touch on Emilie’s clitoris. She pushes firmly in rhythm with Emilie’s breathing.

If you only learn one clitoral massage stroke, let it be the next stroke where David gathers the labia in toward the clitoris, again and again. Following that wonderful stroke, David and Betsy both demonstrate acupressure points around the clitoris in a stroke named “Rock around the Clit Clock.” There are sex cults based on repeated and mindful stroking of the acupressure point found at two o’clock. Annie Sprinkle reminds us that the woman receiving is in charge of how she is touched. So ask her!

This astonishing clitoral massage is one pleasurable part of The New School of Erotic Touch’s most popular course Female Genital Massage.  How important are vulva touch skills?

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Betty Dodson, Ph.D. is the most famous sex coach in the world; she charges $1200 per session.  Sweet Caryn comes to Betty Dodson, the orgasm doctor, with a situation: "I don't know how to use my fingers or my hands to get myself off. And I freeze up when my boyfriend touches me. I wish I knew how to incorporate masturbating into partner sex." Betty Dodson says, "Ok, we'll work on that." Betty starts the session with a tour of Caryn's vulva. Extreme camera close-ups allow us to see places that Caryn has never seen. We then witness Betty's expert coaching of Caryn's self touch.  Betty knows changes don't happen in one session. At session's end, she tells Caryn, "Practice. Practice. Practice."

Notice Betty's expertise in all aspects of orgasm coaching:  giving permission and encouragement, witnessing, offering instruction, reframing the erotic experience and guiding our placement of attention.  Betty Dodson invented the term "sex coaching." 

If you are interested in sex coaching as a career, The New School offers a home study course in Orgasmic Yoga coaching and Sexological Bodywork: The Yoga of Sex. Or you  can train as a Sexological Bodyworker in Australia, Switzerland or California.

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One erotically-gifted woman brings herself to several explosive orgasmic ejaculations. Her message to all women is to let go and embody your pleasure. Fifteen San Francisco artists, musicians, dancers and poets take us on a visionary journey into the ecstatic dimensions of female ejaculation. You can experience the entire 90 minute journey in Divine Nectar: Exploring Female Ejaculation.

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Betty Dodson has been coaching women about orgasms and masturbation since the 1970s. In this clip we meet Carol, a 26 year old medical student who is not sure where her clitoris resides. Dr. Dodson gives Carol one of her famous vulva anatomy lessons and then shows her several simple ways she can begin pleasuring herself. Betty ends by reminding us that many ancient cultures worshipped the vulva. From the DVD Celebrating Orgasm.

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Double her pleasure. After deeply relaxing the vagina and anal sphincters with massage, insert one finger in her anus and two fingers in her vagina, touching both her g-spot and her a-spot. Then pleasure her clitoris with your thumb. You are now massaging four different erogenous zones at the same time. Watch the experts, then do it yourself. Learn more of Jaiya's Exquisite Anal Massage here.

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This vulva-anal massage is not about partner-engagement or two lovers connecting. Roy Turpin is a certified Sexological Bodyworker who helps individuals, couples, and groups access profound erotic states. In this session, Suz goes deep into a state of arousal that is free of fantasy, unfinished emotional business, religious dogma, and habitual sexual behaviors. The world needs more Sexological Bodyworkers. View more of this session here.

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The walls of the vagina are rich with unexplored pleasure zones. Each woman has her own landscape of sensitive nerve endings. Let your fingers wake up her special treasure map. While receiving internal touch, Jaiya models intimate communication—with her hands and with her words. Ever the pleasure activist, Jaiya’s also demonstrates how to massage the clitoris and these two pleasure spots at the same time. This "roof of the vagina" lesson is from Jaiya's comprehensive erotic massage course: Red Hot Touch for Lovers.

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