Conscious touch invites the receiver’s attention. Note how Destin makes
use of squeezes, tugs, petting, and pressure. He is laying the
foundation for deeper savoring.
Massaging the clitoris through the hood is a good place to start. Note
how Destin strokes the entire length of clitoral shaft. He then uses
thumb pressure around the base of the clitoris.
Take time to revel in the undressing of your lover. Destin names the
core of erotic massage: one person gives, one person receives. Destin
says: “This is all about you. This is your time enjoy. Be selfish.”
She says: “Yes!”
Attentive to Anastasia’s feedback, Destin uses varying degrees of pressure as he massages the pathway between Anastasia’s heart and vulva. Anastasia uses her voice to resonate with Destin’s touch.
Erotic massage often wakes up more than the body. Destin's loving touch allows Anastasia to go so deeply she experiences a cry-gasm, an orgasm of tears. When strong emotions come up, it is important to continue the massage. Stopping sends the message that the emotions are not okay.