Rosebud Massage

Anal massage is an astonishing form of love-making and more common than anal intercourse, according to Jack Morin, Ph.D., the author of Anal Pleasure and Health. Watch these four couples demonstrate the basic strokes of Rosebud Massage (external anal massage). Then learn this massage by practicing with your partner, savoring the incredible sensations and pleasures. Each stroke demonstrated offers your partner a different sensation. Each wakes up different tissues and stimulates different nerve endings.

Like all muscles, the sphincters enjoy being stretched. In fact, much of the pleasure from receiving anal intercourse involves the stimulation and stretching of the sphincter muscles. Cupping the butt cheeks, slowly apply outward pressure. Then, stretch both side to side, and top to bottom.

Try massaging the external sphincter with alternating thumb strokes. Remember that “slow” is usually better than “fast”. The elbow against the Rosebud is surprisingly sensuous –but be gentle with your pressure. Feel the delicious pushing on your rosebud without the possibility of penetration. This is an invitation to open totally. Then pulse gently with your thumb and fingers without any intention of entering. This massage might evolve into other forms of lovemaking or your might end your touching by holding your partner quietly.