Barbara Carrellas
Sex, whether Tantric or not, involves touch. Lots of touch. Traditional
sex guides usually discuss which body parts to touch, when to touch it,
and how fast to touch it. This is great, as far as it goes. But in
Tantra, we want to go a step further. We want to become the touch. In
order to do that, we need to find the narrow realm of touch that lies
between too much pressure and too little. When you touch a body, you
want to touch deeply enough that the body pushes back just a little. If
a muscle becomes rigid under your touch, you've gone too far. If the
muscle feels flaccid, you haven't gone far enough.
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