Male Genital Massage

Joseph Kramer Ph.D. invites us to be creative as we give and receive erotic massage.

Stretch out your body and breathe deeply to prepare for an erotic massage.

Matthew and Steve move and breathe together to enter their bodies and to connect with each other.

After an hour of full body touch, Steve and Matthew take three deep breaths together, oil the front of the body, and begin waking up the penis and pelvis.

This sequence of strokes stimulates the concentration of nerve endings just below the head on the underside of the penis.

Many men find the high friction stroke “twist and shout” the most pleasurable in the whole massage.

“You twist, he shouts … with ecstasy.” Joseph Kramer

Simultaneous stimulation of the genitals, nipples, belly and heart spreads the pleasure throughout the body.

“Celebrate the heart-genital connection.” Joseph Kramer

Conscious breathing and making sounds are crucial elements in this massage. While massaging the penis, Steve and Matthew also include the legs and the perineum.

“Pull his sound to his core.” Joseph Kramer

The lovers demonstrate scrotal massage and the pleasurable effects of pulling the skin of the penis taut.

Steve and Matthew take special care in massaging the sensitive head of the penis. In this massage, the penis can be hard, semi-hard, or soft. Here, the lovers are partially aroused.

This massage culminates in the “Big Draw,” an intense clenching and releasing. The Big Draw often results in an opening of the heart and a feeling of love for self, others, and the world.

“As I receive pleasure, so the universe receives pleasure through me.” A Tantric Meditation

After studying male genital massage in the DVD "Fire on the Mountain," this South African couple offers their own lessons in the caress of cock.

Stretching is one way Anastasia and Destin wake up their bodies in preparation for erotic massage love-making. Here, they demonstrate a hip-opening stretch adjusted for each of their specific needs.

Anastasia has been helping Destin stretch his legs and hips for over a year. Massage and affection are as important as the stretches. Notice Anastasia's excellent posture and relaxation--this keeps her own body safe while supporting Destin.

Anastasia takes advantage of Destin's semi-erect state at the beginning of their massage session by practicing the cock shiatsu strokes. After she covers the length of his shaft with slow squeezes, he asks that she add a circular motion to address the deepest tissues of his penis.

Destin has been working towards restoring his circumcised foreskin for over a year. The practice of stretching the sheath of the penis can restore the sensitivity of the foreskin. Here, Anastasia playfully stretches and teases the outermost skin of his shaft. Because these stretches work best while the penis is soft, their explorations here are brief.

Anastasia uses circular and long strokes to connect Destin's cock, belly and heart.

Long smooth strokes with both hands moving in opposing directions honor the entire length of the penis and create a sensation of lengthening. Try extending the stroke all the way down across the perineum for external prostate stimulation.

As they breathe together, Anastasia adds vibrations to Destin's perineum. He completes the energetic circuit by placing his palm on her heart, and they enjoy the vibrations of their love.

Anastasia and Destin breathe together while Anastasia strokes in rhythm to the breath. As the excitement builds, Destin practices a “little Big Draw” in which he pauses his breathing, clenches his pelvic muscles, and then releases fully. The Big Draw creates a shift from high excitement to bliss.

Soft penis massage is one of the great pleasures of life.

Ben Haggard talks about the revolutionary outcomes of erotic massage, and of the harm that is done when massage systematically avoids the genitals.

Erotic massage can help us integrate, heal old wounds, and become more fully human.

Taoist Erotic Massage can be used for pleasure, for healing, to reach altered states, and to enter mystical states.

The big draw is a practice used at the end of a Taoist Erotic Massage. This clenching of muscles and holding of breath increases the intensity of pleasure and allows access to altered states.

Being experimental and playful with erotic massage techniques often results in growing confidence, self-assuredness and erotic generosity.

Massage is a highly effective bonding technique that all kinds of men can experience with one another.

How we treat our bodies is intimately connected with how we treat the earth. Embodiment is a necessary foundation to social and environmental change.

Kevin Greene comments on how receiving an erotic massage generates energy that lasts for days.

“Erotic touch saved my life.” Dale Wells

The sensation in an erotic massage can be so full bodied, many men cannot tell if they have an erection or not.

Isa invites us to let go of performance anxiety. Erotic massage is about sensations, not erections.

One way to understand “pleasure” is as a dance between the experiences of excitement and enjoyment.

How do we learn new sexual behaviors?

“My hands are a sexual organ.” Javier Regueiro

A German somatic psychotherapist, Martin Siems, describes how erotic massage speeds up the therapeutic process.

During a Taoist erotic massage, you can access mystical and archetypal realms.

This animated montage is the true story of Tom the Fireman, who tells us what he learned about receiving pleasure. Photos by Annie Sprinkle.

Wardell Pomeroy, co-author of the Kinsey sex studies, introduces Dr. Joseph Kramer, who speaks about enhancing and prolonging orgasm.

Dr. Joseph Kramer presents his work, in theory and practice, on freedom through erotic touch at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality.

Die ganze "Fire On the Mountain" massage übersetzt auf Deutsch. Matthew und Steve zeigen 30 Griffe für den Zauberstab.