The Best of Vulva Massage

This short video will get you in the mood for this stunning anthology: The Best of Vulva Massage.

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Give your partner a full body massage before focusing on her vulva. Once you both are ready, Jaiya offers an astonishingly beautiful teaching, showing ways to begin to touch the vulva— with breathing, eye gazing, quiet pressure, patting, drumming, tapping, cupping, and vibrating. Three loving couples show how to build sexual trust with their hands and their hearts. Jaiya guides you in awakening your lover’s body and your own with this lesson from her comprehensive erotic massage course: Red Hot Touch for Lovers.

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Massaging the clitoris makes it bigger, firmer, and more erect. Annie Sprinkle’s advice is to start with a feather light touch. Extreme camera close-ups allow us to see how David’s fingers expertly vary pressure, rhythm, and direction on Rachel’s clitoral hood and surrounding tissues. Letta shows us the classic finger circle stroke on her own clitoris. She knows exactly the pressure she likes. Betsy demonstrates the doorbell touch on Emilie’s clitoris. She pushes firmly in rhythm with Emilie’s breathing.

If you only learn one clitoral massage stroke, let it be the next stroke where David gathers the labia in toward the clitoris, again and again. Following that wonderful stroke, David and Betsy both demonstrate acupressure points around the clitoris in a stroke named “Rock around the Clit Clock.” There are sex cults based on repeated and mindful stroking of the acupressure point found at two o’clock. Annie Sprinkle reminds us that the woman receiving is in charge of how she is touched. So ask her!

This astonishing clitoral massage is one pleasurable part of The New School of Erotic Touch’s most popular course Female Genital Massage.  How important are vulva touch skills?

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Betty Dodson, Ph.D. is the most famous sex coach in the world; she charges $1200 per session.  Sweet Caryn comes to Betty Dodson, the orgasm doctor, with a situation: "I don't know how to use my fingers or my hands to get myself off. And I freeze up when my boyfriend touches me. I wish I knew how to incorporate masturbating into partner sex." Betty Dodson says, "Ok, we'll work on that." Betty starts the session with a tour of Caryn's vulva. Extreme camera close-ups allow us to see places that Caryn has never seen. We then witness Betty's expert coaching of Caryn's self touch.  Betty knows changes don't happen in one session. At session's end, she tells Caryn, "Practice. Practice. Practice."

Notice Betty's expertise in all aspects of orgasm coaching:  giving permission and encouragement, witnessing, offering instruction, reframing the erotic experience and guiding our placement of attention.  Betty Dodson invented the term "sex coaching." 

If you are interested in sex coaching as a career, The New School offers a home study course in Orgasmic Yoga coaching and Sexological Bodywork: The Yoga of Sex. Or you  can train as a Sexological Bodyworker in Australia, Switzerland or California.

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One erotically-gifted woman brings herself to several explosive orgasmic ejaculations. Her message to all women is to let go and embody your pleasure. Fifteen San Francisco artists, musicians, dancers and poets take us on a visionary journey into the ecstatic dimensions of female ejaculation. You can experience the entire 90 minute journey in Divine Nectar: Exploring Female Ejaculation.

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Double her pleasure. After deeply relaxing the vagina and anal sphincters with massage, insert one finger in her anus and two fingers in her vagina, touching both her g-spot and her a-spot. Then pleasure her clitoris with your thumb. You are now massaging four different erogenous zones at the same time. Watch the experts, then do it yourself. Learn more of Jaiya's Exquisite Anal Massage here.

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This vulva-anal massage is not about partner-engagement or two lovers connecting. Roy Turpin is a certified Sexological Bodyworker who helps individuals, couples, and groups access profound erotic states. In this session, Suz goes deep into a state of arousal that is free of fantasy, unfinished emotional business, religious dogma, and habitual sexual behaviors. The world needs more Sexological Bodyworkers. View more of this session here.

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The walls of the vagina are rich with unexplored pleasure zones. Each woman has her own landscape of sensitive nerve endings. Let your fingers wake up her special treasure map. While receiving internal touch, Jaiya models intimate communication—with her hands and with her words. Ever the pleasure activist, Jaiya’s also demonstrates how to massage the clitoris and these two pleasure spots at the same time. This "roof of the vagina" lesson is from Jaiya's comprehensive erotic massage course: Red Hot Touch for Lovers.

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Every vulva is an entire erotic universe waiting to be explored. Joseph Kramer artfully filmed extreme close-ups of eleven of his erotically gifted friends. The original filming of each vulva lasted between fifteen minutes and an hour. He then chose the best five minutes from each woman for his DVD Zen Pussy. This video shows just one minute of mons mandala from each woman. Notice the genital movements created by each woman’s breathing. Contemplating vulva can stimulate creativity, access ancient wisdom, dispel shame, bring about enlightenment and arouse plenty of good, old-fashioned pleasure. 


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The Hitachi Magic Wand is the Rolls Royce of vibrators. Emilie discovers that she enjoys the vibrator best when cushioned by Betsy’s hand. During a breathing meditation, Letta gently traces mandalas on her vulva with her Hitachi. From years of conscious lovemaking, David knows how best to touch Rachel with her vibrator. Lubrication enhances sensation. Betsy delights her partner with Hitachi journeys up the body to her heart and breasts. Letta ends her self-loving session by ecstatically vibrating herself from the soles of her feet to the top of her head. “And in the end the love you take is equal to the love you make.”

This "body electric" lesson is just one pleasurable part of The New School of Erotic Touch’s most popular course Female Genital Massage.

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The first how-to-female-ejaculate sex education video was created in 1992 by Dorrie Lane of Vulva University. After an explicit vulva anatomy lesson, Dorrie uses a small vibrator for self pleasure. The extreme video close-up allows us to witness Dorrie’s remarkable arousal, resulting in a triple climax and very wet ejaculation. From Dorrie's DVD "How to Find Your Goddess Spot".

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Pleasure is a mixture of excitement and bliss. Some of us focus just on the excitement. Annie Sprinkle’s sex wisdom is that bliss and “the afterglow” are as important as the excitement. In this video clip from How to Be a Sex Goddess, Annie leads a female masturbation ritual. Notice the emphasis on savoring as well as on stimulation.

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Jaiya’s class Erotic Touch for Sexual Positions teaches lovers how to use their hands creatively during intercourse. In this segment she demonstrates pressing the outer labia inward as she is being penetrated. For even more pleasure she uses circular movements to press the labia in toward the penis. She pleasures her own clitoris while varying pressure on her partner’s erection. Jaiya delights when her lover uses his penis to massage, and tap, her clitoris. This feels great for the man also.

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Do you know the most pleasurable places on your lover’s genitals? Jaiya shows us her favorite clitoris strokes—massaging the clit through the labia, tapping the head of the clit with a finger, and stroking the shaft of the clitoris through the hood. If you liked this mini-lesson, check out Jaiya's comprehensive erotic massage course: Red Hot Touch for Lovers.

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Anastasia is an erotically-gifted, embodied young woman. While she is receiving a genital massage from Destin, she is actively waking her own body with movement, self-touch, and sound. We are privileged to witness her going deep into her feelings. You can watch two hours of Destin and Anastasia in our online class or DVD Lovers getting started with Erotic Massage.

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Being over sixty certainly doesn’t mean you have to stop having fun! Rachel and Vince, a long-term erotic couple, regularly delight in each other’s bodies with childlike curiosity. Rachel takes charge of her sexual experience by telling Vince exactly what she wants. Note the use of creative and ergonomic sexual positions to increase arousal and intimacy. This is a lesson in lovemaking for young and old alike. From the DVD Best of Vulva Massage, Volume 1.

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Annie Sprinkle was given the name Mahamudra by members of an eastern cult. They told her it meant "The Biggest Orgasm of All." With the help of two assistants and the Hitachi Magic Wand, Dr. Annie Sprinkle takes us on a phenomenal ride as she literally charts her five minute long megagasm. Annie shows us there are no limits on what is erotically possible. Annie’s orgasm takes her into a raw, animalistic and voracious chaos. Annie describes the megagasm as a type of sexual/emotional cleansing: “You can clear out all of the emotional muck.” From Annie's video course How To Be a Sex Goddess.

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Betty Dodson has been coaching women about orgasms and masturbation since the 1970s. In this clip we meet Carol, a 26 year old medical student who is not sure where her clitoris resides. Dr. Dodson gives Carol one of her famous vulva anatomy lessons and then shows her several simple ways she can begin pleasuring herself. Betty ends by reminding us that many ancient cultures worshipped the vulva. From the DVD Celebrating Orgasm.

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Jwala and Victor create a ritual to help Jwala reclaim her sexuality after menopause. Joseph Kramer and Annie Sprinkle agree that this erotic massage set is one of the best ever filmed.

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Some talk distracts from love-making. Jwala's clear verbal communication deepens their physical connection.

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Vulva massage can free deeply held emotions. Jwala and Victor demonstrate how to stay present through emotional release.

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Notice how making sound amplifies the physical experience - and can contribute to multiple orgasms and female ejaculation

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These are the teachers and technicians who contributed to The Best of Vulva Massage.

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